Grandma Ashby
My Memories....
Always made Mexican food on Thanksgiving
Had lots of cacti and desert decor in her house
Caffeine Free Coke in the Fridge
Biggest Candy Bars on Halloween
She would do anything. Even till the end. Anry.
Loved little people
Black poodle named Shadow
Even though I was her step-grandchild you would have never known. She loved us all and we were always welcome at her house. Anytime.
She will be missed greatly.
Her death was a little easier knowing that she has an 'old man' waiting on her on the other side.
And I am sure he was ready to see her.
My brother, Nick, and I spent her last night with her.
I will never forget we were getting ready to leave and my brother kissed her on the forehead and said bye and although we did not know what she said back she mumbled to him and she knew we were there.
Obituary for Bessie "Joanne" "Jody" Ashby
Bessie “Joanne” “Jody” Ashby, 82, of Lafayette, passed away Saturday, February 2, 2019 at St. Mary’s Health Care.
Born on December 11, 1936 in Compton, CA, she was the daughter of the late James Jared and Ora Mae (Schmidt) Jared.
She married James William Ashby on September 8, 1954 in Oxford, CA and he preceded her in death in November 2012.
Joanne was a homemaker. She formerly worked for Charles Sanchelli Real Estate and a receptionist for the Journal and Courier.
She was a member of American Legion Post #11. She loved gardening, and going to casinos to gamble. Joanne was devoted to her family, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Surviving are her children: Richard Ashby of Delphi and Debra Trader (husb: Brad) of Lafayette, sister: Merry Post of Paris, TX, ten grandchildren, eighteen great-grandchildren, two sister-in-laws: Sandra Williams and Sherri Oland (husb: Jerry) both of Lafayette. She was preceded in death by one daughter, Jan Laverene Ashby, three sisters: Patricia, Barbara and Holly, one brother: Leonard “Abe” Jared, sister-in-law: Lois Thoennes, and one great-granddaughter: Beautie Porche.
Friends may call 4-5 p.m. Thursday, February 7, 2019 followed by the service at 5 p.m. at Hippensteel Funeral Home. Chaplain Laura Penney Bade will officiate. Special thanks to the entire staff at St. Mary Heath Care and VIAQUEST. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to VIAQUEST Hospice or St. Mary Health Care. Share memories and condolences online at
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